tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8769048173809484225.post6897369923489901080..comments2023-09-19T10:22:18.312-04:00Comments on The Bitchy Stitcher: ApologiesMeganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04848601503102752338noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8769048173809484225.post-60932773183789508422008-12-11T16:13:00.000-05:002008-12-11T16:13:00.000-05:00I'm with Cathy: once bitten, twice shy. Sometimes ...I'm with Cathy: once bitten, twice shy. Sometimes we move on for very good reasons -- go with your gut.<BR/>I may be too much of a cynic, but that party has "can of worms" written all over it!KateKwiltzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17155485457058205111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8769048173809484225.post-85799954056978225932008-12-11T13:20:00.000-05:002008-12-11T13:20:00.000-05:00Thats a hard situation. Keep us posted on what you...Thats a hard situation. Keep us posted on what you decided to do. Good luck in the bonus round interview!!!Alycia~Quiltygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16283575876006453806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8769048173809484225.post-73057730017227997992008-12-08T16:32:00.000-05:002008-12-08T16:32:00.000-05:00megan - never apologize for not blogging, blogging...megan - never apologize for not blogging, blogging is for YOU not US .. if anyone wants to know what's going on, they can email you.<BR/><BR/>as for your friend - she could be taking the first step towards changing (or not) might i suggest you go 'late-ish', and have another obligation that you need to attend (whether true or not) is it honest, no, but if you aren't having a good time, then it allows you to bow out gracefully without hurting her feelings or creating more antagonism between you .. will she 'know' prolly, but as long as no one actually says anything, then it's just a thought in their minds .. if you do go, please go with an open mind and try not to borrow trouble and go in with any pre-conceived notions on how she is going to be and the time you are going to have - not sure if that makes sense, but I do know what I'm trying to say .. just go in with an open mind and no thoughts of "oh God, this is going to suck b/c ... " Think I am going to have a great time :D<BR/><BR/>hugs<BR/>graceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8769048173809484225.post-65118656636606163262008-12-08T16:31:00.000-05:002008-12-08T16:31:00.000-05:00megan - never apologize for not blogging, blogging...megan - never apologize for not blogging, blogging is for YOU not US .. if anyone wants to know what's going on, they can email you.<BR/><BR/>as for your friend - she could be taking the first step towards changing (or not) might i suggest you go 'late-ish', and have another obligation that you need to attend (whether true or not) is it honest, no, but if you aren't having a good time, then it allows you to bow out gracefully without hurting her feelings or creating more antagonism between you .. will she 'know' prolly, but as long as no one actually says anything, then it's just a thought in their minds .. if you do go, please go with an open mind and try not to borrow trouble and go in with any pre-conceived notions on how she is going to be and the time you are going to have - not sure if that makes sense, but I do know what I'm trying to say .. just go in with an open mind and no thoughts of "oh God, this is going to suck b/c ... " Think I am going to have a great time :D<BR/><BR/>hugs<BR/>graceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8769048173809484225.post-897689730411633312008-12-08T07:27:00.000-05:002008-12-08T07:27:00.000-05:00sometimes it is better to remember the good memori...sometimes it is better to remember the good memories than to allow her to create more bad memories for you. I have had the same thing happen and it has been 11 years since I saw her last and it is ok. Also how rude of her husband to come and ask this of you. Let her other friends throw the party for her.Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05363852932056648047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8769048173809484225.post-26655619125082664372008-12-07T23:46:00.000-05:002008-12-07T23:46:00.000-05:00Not that you asked for any opinions, but perhaps j...Not that you asked for any opinions, but perhaps just a one on one (or two and two) coffee outing would be better after all this time... Just my thoughts...Myrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10671717725163020678noreply@blogger.com